Happy Birthday Son, another year has passed and I miss you so much, 37 years ago you came into my life for a short while, my love for you has been the same all these years, my only wish would have been that you were still here with your Sisters to see how well they have done, and to see how lovely your nieces and nephews are. I’m sure you would have been a great Uncle to them all always thinking of you Love from Dad.

Happy Christmas from Auntie KAZ & Your cousin Callum all the way from Lapland. We put some flowers on for you but forgot the wreath so will pop back down once home for another chat. Give a big cuddle to Grandad from me plsss love and kisses now and always xxxx

Merry Christmas Kiddo 🩵💙xxx

Merry Christmas Kiddo 🩵💙xxx

Merry Xmas Son another year has come around since we had to say goodbye, this year we decided to celebrate your life and your passing by going to Lapland your Auntie Karen and Callum are here along with your Step Mum Jackie/auntie and Jamie, everything we do we will be wishing you were with us, I will have a word in Santa’s she’ll and ask him to remember you this Xmas. Love from us all say hi to your grandad for us xxx

Well Son its Xmas time once again a reminder of our terrible loss, I miss been able to have this time with you but you will never leave my thoughts, I am thinking of both you and Granddad during this sad time, you are always with me daily I carry you round in my heart, Merry Xmas to you both xxx

Well Son the time has come around again to celebrate your Birthday on the 8th. my loss does not take away the fact I think of you constantly, what your chosen career would have been, whether you would have married and had children, how much we may have argued the list is endless, No matter what I will always love you the same as I do your sisters Sara and Alecia. The three of you are the best thing I have ever done, my love will remain it saddens me that you were taken so we could not share our lives through all the ups n downs, you would possibly have played referee who knows, I miss you Son all the best for your Birthday. Lots of Love Dad

Hi Son we have finally received permission from Leeds City Council to replace your headstone, the wording which has tainted yours and Granddads stone will no longer be a stain on your grave, the new stone when installed is inscribed for just you and Granddad, it also mentions a beloved brother which was omitted 34 years ago, you will have a teddy on your stone which matches the teddy still with you on your grave, Yorkshire Roses are in four corners for you both to show you were Yorkshire and proud, Love you Son and you too Dad, this will brighten up your grave as you both deserve xxx

Merry Xmas Son, not been in touch for a while, forgot login details, I know what a dimwit of a dad, I'm back now still thinking of you, love you more today than yesterday, miss you lots all jy love dad xxx

I forgot to light your birthday candle this year, don't worry though, you weren't far from my thoughts at all. Missing you as always, it seems strange that you would have been 27 this year, where does the time go, 27 years of not having you here with us, where you were meant to be. I can only imagine who you would have become. Peter pup and our photo's together are what I see every morning when I wake up, they make me smile no matter how hard life seems. Love you always xxxxx

Happy birthday Stephen can't believe you would have been 25 today, you are always in my thouhts and will allways remain in my heart I love you Son. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Happy Birthday big brother hope your having a great time where ever you are love you always Ann-Alecia

Hello big brother kara's first birthday is coming soon and I'm wishing more that you could be here to celebrate with us. she's growing beautifully and although I never knew you she reminds me of you the way she smiles all the time and she just brightens up every one of my days. I hope your having a great time where ever you are and you are watching over my baby and keeping her safe. I'm going to leeds in a couple of weeks so I will be sure to come and say hello to you and granddad and bring you some flowers 25 this year ay your getting old but remain forever young. lots of love and kisses your way from me & kara.

My thoughts are of you,at this time of year Son,hoping you are looking over and taking care of your beautiful Niece Kara who is now 7 mths old. only wish you could have been more than a memory to her as she gets older,we will be proud to tell her about her wonderful happy Uncle Smiler,keep her safe Love Dad.

Stephen I miss you more and more each year, just wish we could have had some quality time together you always brightened up my day,twenty four on the 8th and missing out on your sister's new birth into this world, I hope your niece will be born this month to help celebrate your short life if I could have changed places with you I would have, but my destiny was to look after your sister's to ensure they would grow to be beautiful young women, I love you son and miss you every day but you will always remain in my heart good night god bless love you xxx xxxx xxx xxxx

Now then lil man, you would have been 24 tomorrow - we all still miss you like crazy, you are becoming an uncle this year, your little sister is going to be a mum for the first time - You would have made a fantastic uncle, think you would have spoilt both Aleesha and the baby rotten, and showered them with love - Missing you more this year, just thinking about what you have missed out on makes me sad, I am sure you are looking down on us all and will be seeing everything that goes on - if you are, make sure you keep a close eye on our niece - lots of love x x x x x x x x x x x

thanks for bringing back the memories,we miss you lots Rambo just wish we could have seen a lot more off you.... lots of love uncle ian

even though i didnt meet you i have heard at lot of great things about you.It would of been nice if you were here.i visit you every so often to check up on you and make sure your all clean and tidy.bye for now have a nice birthday ur little cousen callum xxx

Hi my little darling, Auntie Karen here love and miss you loads, didn't know you long but loved every minute i had with you. you've now got 3 cousins, Robert, Ben and Callum who would of loved to have met you but never got the chance, However callum does come to the grave with me and ask questions about you while we are there, hope Grandad is looking after you, can't wait to see you both, all my love now and always Auntie Karen xx

Since Christmas Eve 1987 there has been a hole in all of our hearts, that hole belongs to you baby boy. Not a day goes by that we don't think about you and miss you greatly. Always thinking about what you would have grown up to be, and what you would have been like, something tells me that you would have been very happy, always smiling. Probably a bit of a joker if you are anything like dad and your little sister Ann-Alecia. You would have got on well with Ann-Aleica, she is a little gem, and although she never got to meet you dad and me have told her as much as we can, she has seen your photos and met Peter Pup (who is still kept very safe) and she loves you just as much as we do. We have missed out on so much, so many memories that should have been created, but the time we all did spend with you was so precious and always close to our hearts. Know that you will always be in my thoughts, no matter where I am. You are my baby brother and I miss and love you so much...........love you lots Smiler xxxxxxxxxx Rest in Peace baby boy

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I am I and you are you, whatever we were to each other that we still are. Speak to me in the easy way which you always used. Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? Life means all that it ever meant, it is the same as it ever was.

Hello big brother as you can see its the first time I have written on here I know I should have written before but never knew what to write. You have probably been watching and seen my beautiful little girl Kara I know I never met you but everyday my little girl wakes up and smiles at me it reminds me of you and the way people called you smiler I see that in her too. Christmas was hard for me this year wishing that my big brother had been here to share his nieces first one but I'm sure you were watching her being as cheeky as ever. I'm 21 soon so I'm supposed to start being an adult officially but really all I want to do is be a good mum so if you don't mind if I'm being to hard on Kara sometimes or not showing her how much I love her just let me know please & just watch over her and protect her I know if you are her guardian angel she has got the best one in the whole world. I look forward to meeting you one day not just yet though I have to make sure my beautiful baby bear is okay before I leave her & I wanted to say thank you I know you saved me that Christmas & I think its because you knew I was destined to find Trev and have Kara I owe you one big bro. I know I don't really need to ask but make sure you watch out for sara & dad to if you could fined sara's match please send him in her direction as I think she too needs A bit of happiness in her life at the minute and she would make an amazing mum if you have seen how good she is with Kara you will agree, she is doing well for herself though got a good job and and a house she is amazing to have done that all on our own I think we can say our big sister is one in a million :). Dad is doing okay at the minute me and him don't really see eye to eye on a lot of stuff we have become quite distant over the past few years which I don't like but its mainly due to choices we have both made I'm sure if you were here you would have banged our heads together by now if its not being to cheeky I would ask one more favour could you help get mine and dads relationship back to how it used to be I miss being able to talk to him really and he is missing out on things with Kara to which I hate I just really want my dad back and I worry that if things don't change with us soon they will become unchangeable so if you could give us both a kick up the butt at the right time that would be great. I've given you loads to read anyway & you probably see my feelings on things when your watching me feel free to throw something at me from time to time if you think I'm wrong as sometimes its hard for me to see when I'm being a brat and lets face it thats what big brothers are for knock us down a peg or two when we get to big for our boots :P. I love you so much and hope you are happy where ever you are and one more thing I know people wont agree with me about this but if you do see mum be mad at her for the way she treat us and tell her off but then forgive her I never understood her until I had Kara but I know if I lost my little girl there would be nothing in this world that could make me better. She made a lot of mistakes how she treat me and sara I know I wouldn't do the same if I was in her shoes but I finally understand a little of what she must have gone through and I have forgiven her I hope if she is with you that you can make her see how she hurt us and one day she may have the chance to make it up to us who knows. Always Thinking of you stephen by the way me and trev picked a boys name the other day incase our next baby is a boy what do you think to Maximus Stephen-Joseph Frater get back to me on that one :D I love you x x x